By BAKANG MOKOTO
28 May 2026 – The Frances Baard District Men for Change structure hosted a successful Thetha Ndoda engagement aimed at creating a safe platform for men to openly express themselves without fear of judgement, while promoting responsible leadership, family values and men’s health awareness. The event was held at the Kimberley SAPS Gymnasium. Captain Bernette Phoko welcomed all attendees and acknowledged the presence of the Men for Change National Deputy Chairperson, Colonel Sibusiso Msimango, as well as various stakeholders and role players from different government departments, including trade unions SAPU and POPCRU.
The programme commenced with a performance by the Northern Cape SAPS Band, followed by an opening prayer conducted by Phoko.
Addressing the gathering, the Men for Change National Deputy Chairperson, Colonel Sibusiso Msimango, outlined the purpose of the programme and emphasised the importance of restoring moral values and rebuilding society. Msimango said the initiative seeks to assist men in reclaiming what has been lost in communities and families, adding that society has become fragmented and that collective efforts are needed to rebuild and restore unity.
Tina Mphaka from the National Prosecuting Authority (NPA) addressed the topic of child maintenance and highlighted that supporting one’s children is a legal obligation. Mphaka encouraged members to continue striving towards becoming responsible leaders within their families and communities.
“An interactive discussion followed, where attendees were afforded an opportunity to engage with presenters on various issues related to maintenance and family responsibilities,” she said.
The Kimberley Station Commander, Brigadier Nicolas Mtongana delivered a message of support, stating that: “A real man is not measured by how feared he is, but by how responsible he is.”
“We further urge men to respect, protect and provide for their families,” he said.
Dr Isaac Kayembe delivered a presentation focusing on men’s health and prostate cancer awareness. Kayembe emphasised that “prevention is better than cure” and highlighted symptoms that should not be ignored.
“We encourage men between the ages of 40 and 50 to undergo regular health screenings,” he said.
Dr Tshibwila Kithenge further elaborated on prostate cancer, explaining the risks associated with late detection and stressing the importance of regular screening and early intervention. Kithenge added that the session concluded with a vote of thanks delivered by Captain Thapelo Phinias, who expressed appreciation to all stakeholders, presenters and attendees for their participation and attention throughout the programme.
“He encouraged attendees to apply the knowledge and information shared during the engagement,” he said.
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