
By Lesedi Setlhodi
What’s up your sleeve this Valentine’s?
Expectations have already started to build up as in just two weeks it will be Valentine’s Day. Women are expecting to be swept of their feet whereas men are pressured to impress their women. On the other hand others are really just not bothered.
Well, if you used to treat your partner to an indoor Valentine’s Day this year you might want to twist things a bit; make reservations at a place your partner will enjoy the food, drinks and the atmosphere has to be “IT”.
Things do not need to be too extravagant just impressive enough, after all you ought to know your partner better.
Given that you will be exploring the outdoors you may amongst others have a picnic with your partner, watch the sunset together.
There are also game drives, walks in the park or gardens, boat cruises, or even a spar treatment for the both of you so that by the time you get home you will be extra relaxed for some late night fun. Something that most movie lovers will be catching at different movie houses across the country is the long awaited 50 Shades of Grey. Cinemas around South Africa are experiencing a lot of bookings for this erotic movie based on the book/s by E.L. James that hits the big screen on the 13th February 2015. Talk about strategic timing.
In case for a few Valentine’s you have been going out all the time, this year you could try staying in. I know, staying in means most if not everything from the food to the setting up of a romantic atmosphere will rest upon your shoulders but it could also be fun and score you countless points with your partner. Whether things go south or north an effort to impress is always acknowledged. Despite that being said if you are going to prepare the food yourself at least have an idea of what you are doing in the kitchen and if you will be ordering out make sure it is something your partner will really enjoy.
If you having wine let it be sweet and fruity, some strawberries or cherries and chocolates will also do. Break out the nice dishes and silverware and if possible use cloth napkins as they add an elegant touch and show that you are willing to go an extra mile. Scented or beeswax candles; music (a bit of jazzy sounds or soul to R&B jams not some distractive tunes); soft warm dimmed lights; red rose petals / roses should set you up for your whimsical atmosphere. See not so complicated.
Depending on how your plans are, you could massage her feet; she could rub your neck or back or both of you could just go all sensual on the massage. A warm bubble bath for two might be something that you both might also want to indulge in.
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