Guys, here’s your chance to know the seven sex secrets women wish their partner knew:

A good talk is a great aphrodisiac 

Many women find talk a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple is relaxing can be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her mentally during those intimate moments. 

Many women are anxious about their looks 

For a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because of this some women undress only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she’s gorgeous if she isn’t, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive. 

For a woman sex isn’t separate from rest of her life 

On the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during sex. 

An orgasm is not a necessity 

Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to climactic sexual culmination. It is great to have such moments, but aren’t always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reach an orgasm. Sometimes instead of having orgasms, women prefer to engage in just foreplay. 

Sex need not be a serious act 

Playfulness is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about sex. They forget to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This takes performance pressure off from both partners. 

Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness 

Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved. 

Warm attention after sex is important 

A woman’s need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is true that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. Almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this phase happens gradually. However, if you don’t like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and gently wake him up afterwards. 

(Dr Rajan B Bhonsle, consultant in sexual medicine and counselor)

– TOI

By Obakeng Maje

Lehurutshe-North West police are investigating a case of murder after a woman killed by mob.

It is alleged that the community of Boswelakgomo, near Lehurutshe killed Mmamonyana Mogwera,43 after they accused her of witchcraft Kelebogile Moiloa said.

“Police were called at Boswelakgomo village,in Lehurutshe and found a 43 year-old woman lying in the pool of blood. They allegedly interviewed bystanders and learnt that Mogwera was allegedly killed by members of community” sergeant Moiloa said.

No one has been arrested yet and investigations continue.

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Wolmaranstad-Police are investigating a case of rape after unknown man pounced on two girls aged 18 and 20 respectively.

“It is alleged that two friends were walking in the street when approached by unknown man” police said.

“He allegedly produced a knife and threatened them. He allegedly dragged them to the nearly bushes and raped them” sergeant Kelebogile Moiloa said.

Police said a suspect fled the scene on foot after the ordeal. 

Two girls were taken to a local clinic for medical attention and two cases of rape were opened.

Police investigation continues.

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By Obakeng Maje

Leeudoringstad- North West police arrested a teen after he allegedly stabbed his uncle to death.

“It is alleged that a 18 year-old nephew was engaged in an argument with his uncle” sergeant Kelebogile Moiloa said.

Pule Mabona,28 was bludgeoned to death after the argument with his nephew led to a fight.

“The police arrested a 18 year suspect and charged with murder. The incident took place on Friday at Kgakala Section in Leeudoringstad” police said.

The suspect is expected to appear at Leeudoringstad Magistrate Court on Tuesday and police investigations continue.

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Ottosdal-A 26 year-old woman arrested after she stabbed a 32 year-old woman to death.

The incident took place on Friday in Ottosdal at around 20:20 North West police said.

“It alleged that a 26 year-old woman was left crestfallen after she saw her so-called boyfriend in a company of Martha Medupe” Kelebogile Moiloa said.

Police said a 26 year-old suspect went on to confront both of them.

“The argument ensued between Medupe and the suspect and the boyfriend,32 left two women arguing after he failed to find truce” Moiloa said.

A suspect was allegedly truculent and that led her to grab a bottle of beer and stabbed Medupe to death.

“Martha Medupe died on the scene and police were called and arrested a 26 year-old woman for murder” police said.

The suspect will appear before magistrate at Ottosdal Court on Tuesday and investigation continues.

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Rustenburg-North West police are looking for six suspects after a 31 year-old woman raped.

Police said the incident took place on Friday at around 23:30 in Tlhabane.

“A woman was allegedly walking along the street with her boyfriend when approached by six suspects” sergeant Kelebogile Moiloa said.

“It is alleged that six suspects were armed with bottle of beers and lushed up. They pounced on a victim’s boyfriend,and stabbed him” Moiloa said.

With the odour of fear, it is alleged the boyfriend ran away and six suspects dragged a woman to Lefaragatlha graveyard where the ordeal took place said police.

“Six suspects allegedly took turns on raping her and fled the scene afterward” Moiloa adds.

No one has been arrested so far and investigations continue. 

Bloemfontein Celtic coach, Clinton Larsen, was visibly upset with some of the referring decisions during his side’s 3-0 loss to Kaizer Chiefs on Sunday afternoon, but instead opted not to talk about it and rather focussed on his players’ performance.

There were some dubious referring decisions made during the 90 minutes at the Free State Stadium on Saturday that saw, what many thought was, Kingston Nkthatha scoring from an offside position and then later in the match the referee wave away two legitimate penalty appeals for handball inside the box (the first being Morgan Gould and the second Siboniso Gaxa).

Larsen, though, did not want to dwell on the negatives, especially the poor referring which he says they have become accustomed to. Instead he said he was proud of his boys’ performance and the fact that they stuck to the tactical game plan.

“No, not at all we are used to this when you are playing against the bigger clubs but the less said about the refereeing the better,” said Larsen.

“I think [tactically] we got it spot on today, we gave them a lot of problems, using the space left by their fullbacks, they had to adjust to the way we played. We played a 4-3-3 and I think the boys executed the game play exceptionally well.

“If ever there was a deceiving scoreline I have to think that it is this one today,” said Larsen after the match.

“The first goal, 16 minutes into the game, totally against the run of play and so with the second one as well.

“I think in the second half they got into our box 3/4 times, we controlled most of the second half, so I am very proud of the performance. There are so many positives to take out of this for the next game.”

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