Celeb talk drives sales of sex toys


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Smartphones have long been a must-have accessory, but sex toys are quickly becoming one of the world’s most popular gadgets.

 

 

Experts believe the willingness of stars such as Gwyneth Paltrow and Jane Fonda to divulge their bedroom secrets is behind a recent surge in the sales of “pleasure goods”.

 

 

Global sales of erotic accessories are to set to rise to 400 million.

 

 

While some of Hollywood’s most famous leading ladies have opened up about their sex lives in the new TV series, The Conversation With Amanda de Cadenet, in the UK Channel 4 has just screened a documentary More Sex Please, We’re British, focusing on its biggest online sex toy retailer, lovehoney.co.uk.

 

 

Originally founded in 2002 by Neal Slateford and Richard Longhurst, Lovehoney offers an array of goods from adult toys and sexy lingerie to erotic literature and games. It has seen its sales increase each year to a current total of £16 million (R205m).

 

 

Slateford, a former record producer for Kylie Minogue, stated that celebrities opening up about their sex lives had been a key sales driver.

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Silver Swan Rabbit Vibrator, a sex toy for women.

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He said: “A famous celebrity will give a big interview about their sex life or their love of sex toys and we will see a flurry of sales afterwards.

 

 

“It all started with Sex In The City – which was incredibly liberating for women, especially after Charlotte became a virtual recluse after buying a rabbit vibrator at New York’s famous Pleasure Chest sex store.

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“Suddenly ordinary women weren’t afraid to talk about their sex lives and their use of sex toys.”

 

 

Global sales of vibrators and other sex toys soared to £5.5bn a year and are to set to rise to £40bn by 2020 – matching those of smartphones.

 

 

Slateford added: “It’s great that celebrities are being more honest about their sex lives. There has been such a huge change in people’s attitudes over the last 10 years.”

 

 

While sales of sex toys had been held back in the past due to an association with the sleazy, male-dominated pornography industry, women were becoming far less shy about sexual aids.

 

 

A report by retail analysts Hewson confirmed there had been a revolution in the past 30 years, driven by the fact that women have a more powerful position in the home and work place.

 

 

“Celebrity endorsement of sex toys by star such as Teri Hatcher, Eva Longoria and Halle Berry act as validators for brands and women alike,” researchers said.

 

 

Several female celebrities talked openly about their favourite sexual positions in US TV interviews screened recently.

 

 

Zoe Saldana, 33, star of Avatar and Pirates of the Caribbean, said: “I like missionary and I like being on my knees too. And I love being on top or standing up.”

 

 

Meanwhile, the X Factor star Tulisa blushed when her rabbit vibrator accidentally went off in her suitcase when she was picking up her baggage at Miami airport.

 

 

Desperate Housewives star Eva Longoria, 37, revealed that some of the best sex she had ever experienced was with a sex toy.

 

 

She said in an interview: “I own two and I have a Rabbit one. I give that as a gift all the time. It’s the best gift to give – an orgasm.”

 

 

Teri Hatcher, 47, also from Desperate Housewives, said: “To be honest, I don’t know what I want a male for. I have some fabulous electronics to use instead. And any woman who tells you she doesn’t is lying.” – Daily Mail

Tevez in trouble over Fergie banner


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Carlos Tevez landed himself in fresh controversy on Monday when he was pictured waving a mocked-up tombstone for Sir Alex Ferguson during Manchester City’s Premier League title celebrations.

 The 28-year-old Argentina striker held up a banner designed to look like a gravestone and bearing the words “RIP Fergie” as City celebrated their title triumph over Manchester United during an open-top bus parade.

 Manchester City later released a statement apologising to Ferguson and criticised Tevez while the player – who it is believed took the banner from a fan – also said he “didn’t mean any disrespect”.

  “The creation of the tasteless material is in itself reprehensible and in accepting and brandishing it, Carlos has made a significant error of judgement,” said a City spokeswoman.

  “The club wishes to express its sincerest apologies to Sir Alex Ferguson and Manchester United Football Club for any offence or distress caused.”

Tevez for his part said he had just got carried away.

 “I got carried away in the excitement of the moment and I certainly didn’t mean any disrespect to Sir Alex Ferguson, who I admire as a man and a manager,” he said.

 There was speculation it could have been a reference to a comment made by Ferguson in 2009 when he was asked whether United would ever be underdogs to their city rivals.

 “Not in my lifetime,” the United manager said.

 Tevez left United in 2009 and joined City.

 He spent several months in exile earlier this season after refusing to come off the bench during a Champions League game at Bayern Munich in September but returned to play a key role in the title run-in after making peace with coach Roberto Mancini.

 City were crowned champions for the first time in 44 years on Sunday when two injury time goals saw them to a 3-2 win over QPR that consigned United – 1-0 winners at Sunderland – to second place on goal difference. – AFP

Killer mom: Poison was my way out


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A Cape Town mother who poisoned her eight-month-old daughter to death did so because she felt there was no other way out of the bleak financial situation she found herself in, the Western Cape High Court has heard.

Phamela Somkence, 29, of Philippi was sentenced to 10 years behind bars on Monday after she admitted that she poisoned her daughter to death and attempted to kill the child’s older sister in the same way.

 The incident took place at their Browns Farm home in October 2010 when Somkence mixed poison into her daughters’ fruit juice and gave it to them before drinking the same deadly concoction in a bid to end her own life.

The young mother claimed she did it because she felt it was the only way out of the dire financial situation she was in as a result of being unemployed.

Somkence and eight-year-old Thimna survived after medical treatment, but Ichume died before reaching a hospital.

In a plea and sentence agreement concluded with the State on Monday, it emerged that Somkence was taking emotional strain at the time she committed the offences because she could not find a job.

She has a secretarial diploma.

In addition, she did not receive financial help from the children’s fathers and had received several letters of demand for outstanding debt.

Her hopes were raised a week before the murder when Thimna’s father told her he would contribute to the maintenance of his child because he had found a job.

However, he died a day after he spoke to her, shattering her hopes of alleviating their poverty-stricken situation.

In desperation, she approached Ichume’s father for financial assistance.

However, she claims that his family turned her away and allegedly assaulted her because they saw her as a nuisance.

Following the alleged assault, she obtained an order against his sister.

In addition, the relationship between Somkence and her own family had also broken down and she began to feel isolated.

The day after the alleged assault at the hands of Ichume’s father’s family, Somkence thought that ending their lives was the only way out.

One of the aggravating factors taken into account when negotiating the plea bargain was the increasing number of similar offences.

In addition, she had the children’s trust and had ample time to reconsider her actions.

Thimna will now have to live with the knowledge that her own mother tried to poison her and that her sister died after drinking the poison.

However, the mitigating factors taken into account by the court include that Somkence is a first offender and that she showed genuine remorse for what she did.

In addition, by pleading guilty, she also spared the court and the State the expense of a protracted trial, and prevented the surviving daughter from having to testify against her.

Her emotional state and “feelings of helplessness” as a result of her financial situation were considered to be substantial and compelling circumstances, justifying a departure from the prescribed minimum sentence of life imprisonment.

Before Cape Judge President John Hlophe on Monday, Somkence confirmed that she understood the consequences of pleading guilty to the charges of murder and attempted murder.

She said the contents of the plea and sentence agreement had been explained to her before she signed it.

 

The murder and attempted murder charges were taken together for the purposes of sentencing and she received a term of 15 years behind bars, of which five years were suspended for five years on condition that she was not convicted of an offence involving violence.

Somkence’s advocate, Lara Joubert, informed the court that, since her client was the primary caregiver for the surviving child, provision had been made for Thimna’s care while Somkence was in prison.

A report from the Department of Social Development was handed to the court.

As the court adjourned, Somkence’s mother, Aganethu, wept uncontrollably as family members comforted her in the public gallery.

She hugged Somkence as court orderlies led her away.

Somkence’s relatives declined to speak to the media.

 

A disturbing trend of similar cases

* Thirty-one-year-old Zulpha Jacobs, pictured, has been charged with murder and child abandonment after the body of her two-year-old son Tariq was found in a shallow grave close to Imperial Primary School in Beacon Valley on December 31.

A neighbourhood watch member found his body.

* In February, 35-year-old Nyarai Chiwandire, stepped in front of an oncoming train near Eerste River railway station with her 16-month-old daughter Rosemary and six-day-old son Allan, killing all three.

* Last month, the Western Cape High Court sentenced Nonkholiso Skotha, 51, of Zwelethemba, Worcester, to 15 years in prison after she killed her nephews for not doing their house chores.

Seven-year-old Ntumeko Mboxi and 11-year-old Zama had been in Skotha’s care since their mother died in 2005.

In a plea bargain she pleaded guilty to murder and assault with intent to commit grievous bodily harm.

* Thirty-five-year-old Venolia Siwa stands accused in the Pampierstad Magistrate’s Court in the Northern Cape of the murders of her five children in October last year.

She allegedly forced her children to drink a cocktail of brake fluid and cooldrink but then drowned them when she thought they were not dying quickly enough.

The eldest, Sizwe, was disabled. The other children were Lukanyo, 10, Edward, five, Reatlegile, four, and Matiki, two.

 

Cape Argus