‘Cuddle chemical’ the new Viagra?


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London – Taking a chemical that helps mothers bond with their babies may not immediately strike you as the best way to improve a man’s libido.

But oxytocin, the so-called “cuddle hormone”, can dramatically improve male sexual performance, researchers have found – producing results on a par with Viagra.

One of the scientists behind the discovery and development of Viagra was so impressed that he described an oxytocin-based treatment as having “blockbuster potential”.

Oxytocin is a hormone naturally made in the body in both men and women, and is involved in sex, sexual attraction, trust and confidence.

Extra doses of the “cuddle chemical” are released into a mother’s blood during labour – triggering the production of breast milk – and flood the brain during breastfeeding, helping mother and baby bond.

It has recently been shown to make men more sensitive and in tune with others’ feelings.

Researchers in California published a paper on the hormone’s effects after giving it to a married father of three who suffered from attention deficit disorder and had difficulty in maintaining social relationships.

His relationship with his wife was also in difficulties, and conventional drugs either were not suitable or had unwanted side-effects.

Spraying the hormone up his nose twice a day did little to help his social phobia but did wonders for his love life, the Journal of Sexual Medicine reports.

His libido went from “very weak” to “somewhat strong”, his sexual arousal from “somewhat difficult” to “somewhat easy” and the act itself was easier to perform and more satisfying.

The spray also produced emotional benefits. The man said he found it easier to be affectionate towards his wife, while she said he wanted to be closer to her and was more tactile.

But not all its effects may be quite so welcome.

The man, who is identified only as Mr B, also hugged a work colleague in a “very out of character” way. At the time the paper was written, the man had not experienced any other side-effects, despite using the oxytocin spray twice a day for several months.

However, the positive effects vanished if he stopped using the spray.

The University of California researchers said the improvements were ‘in keeping’ with those of Viagra.

They concluded: “These findings support trials directly examining the use of oxytocin to treat problems in this vital aspect of human function, especially in the context of stable, loving relationships.”

Others said that as Viagra does not work in all cases, there is a great medical need for a new drug.

Mike Wyllie, one of the team of scientists that discovered and developed Viagra for pharmaceutical giant Pfizer, said that for some men who have had surgery, the little blue pills can work in as few as 10 percent of cases.

With sales of Viagra and similar pills reaching almost £2.5-billion year worldwide, there are billions to be made.

Dr Wyllie said that a drug based on oxytocin could have “blockbuster potential”.

However, he cautioned that drug watchdogs may be cautious about approving a medicine that has emotional as well as physical effects. – Daily Mail

Malema causes presidential stir


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 Expelled ANCYL president Julius Malema said on Monday he wanted to be a leader in the ANC.

“I will lead this ANC. You must put it on the archive. I am going to be a leader of the African National Congress,” he said a news conference in Joburg.

It was his first media briefing since he was expelled from the ANC on April 24. The event was arranged by the National Press Club.

“It doesn’t matter what time it takes, I will lead the African National Congress,” he said.

“For a diamond to shine it goes through a thorough process of being polished.”

Asked what he meant by “leader”, Malema said he was speaking about being on a structure like a provincial executive committee, as he had done before in his home province of Limpopo.

He said he had returned to Joburg, not because he was interested in reclaiming the league presidency alone, but because the youth league had summoned him from Limpopo, where he had been tending cattle.

He was expelled from the ruling party for unfavourably comparing the leadership style of President Jacob Zuma to that of former president Thabo Mbeki, and for remarks on bringing about regime change in Botswana.

Malema was flanked by Floyd Shivambu, who, as league spokesman, was suspended from the ANC for three years for swearing at a journalist and for issuing a statement calling for a change of government in Botswana.

Also with him was ANCYL secretary general Sindiso Magaqa. He had his appeal against his suspension dismissed, but had the period of suspension reduced from three years to one year. He made derogatory remarks about Public Enterprises Minister Malusi Gigaba and the ANC’s stance on nationalisation.

Malema maintained that the league’s top brass was politically targeted during the disciplinary hearings, saying it was unfair that they were not allowed to disagree on policy issues. – Sapa


Can men and women be just friends?



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By Victoria Wellman

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London – It is perfectly normal to have friendships with the opposite sex and most people would swear that those friendships are platonic.

But according to a new study, there is nearly always attraction between male and female friends and the most common cost is dissatisfaction with current romantic partners.

Researchers from University of Wisconsin-Eau Claire, Canada also found that in a test group of 400 adults, if there were feelings of attraction expressed from only one member of the friendship, it was most often from the man.

Associate professor of psychology and lead author of the study, April Bleske-Rechek, believes that because platonic inter-sex relationships are a relatively new concept in the history of human evolution, men are still controlled by their mating instincts.

The participants in the study, which was split into two parts, ranged in age between 18-52 and the findings were reported in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships.

The first experiment split 88 pairs of friends up into different rooms and without asking anyone to identify themselves proposed a series of questions.

This exercise aimed to glean information about the individuals’ attraction to their companions, desire to go on a romantic date and perception of whether their friends were interested in them romantically.

The results showed that men more frequently admitted attraction to their female friends while also overestimating their friend’s romantic feelings towards them.

Women, on the other hand, were less likely to fancy their friends or assume the males had those kinds of feelings for them.

Though the male answers may come across as egocentric, Bleske-Rechek explained: “Historically, men faced the risk of being shut out, genetically, if they didn’t take advantage of various reproductive opportunities. So the argument is that men have evolved to be far more sexually opportunistic.”

The study looked at how friends valued their platonic relationships even if they suspected there was a certain degree of attraction involved. The two test groups were “emerging” adults of 18 years of age to 23 and “young and middle-aged adults” aged between 27 and 52.

Across both demographics, the verdict was unanimous; that the benefits of this type of When Harry Met Sally friendship outweighed the costs, even if it meant their amorous relationships were affected.

Attraction in whatever shape or form was, perhaps unsurprisingly, named as an interference when it came to other relationships, five times more often than it was hailed as a benefit, and the more attracted someone was to a friend, the lower their satisfaction with their romantic partner.

But, as the study concluded: “Sexual attraction came up so frequently as a cost – and these were spontaneous nominations. But people seem willing to take the bad with the good because they find fulfilment in these friendships.” – Daily Mail

Kids saw ‘dad kill mom with spade’


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By Shellee Geduld

A Cape Town man is accused of brutally smashing his wife to death with a spade in front of their traumatised children.

Police claim Antonio Paulo Agostinho Saldanha ignored a protection order against him and used his young children to trick his way into the house he once shared with Claudia Agatha Saldanha.

According to court documents seen by the Daily Voice, Claudia obtained a protection order that prohibited Saldanha from threatening her, assaulting her or entering her Ravensmead home.

But he allegedly ignored this court order and on the morning of March 5, 2011, he went to her home in Poplar Street and demanded to be let in.

 

He allegedly told her that he was bringing their children – aged nine and five years old – to her because they wanted to be with her.

Police say that Claudia was home with her eldest daughter and some friends, but was too scared to open the door.

When she eventually opened the door, Saldanha allegedly forced his way into the house and started to assault his estranged wife.

Police claim he chased her through the house and smacked her and beat her with his fists once he got hold of her.

Saldanha allegedly grabbed a broom and began beating the young mom with it while their children watched in horror.

Police say Claudia grabbed a spade in an attempt to protect herself.

But Saldanha allegedly wrestled the garden tool from her and hit her with it.

When she tried to escape, he allegedly threw her to the ground and continued to beat her with the spade even after his young son tried to stop him.

 

Saldanha appeared in the Western Cape High Court last week where he faces charges of murder and ignoring a protection order.

Prosecutor Nadia Ajam told the court that a trial date has been set for later this month when his children are expected to testify against him.

*This article was published in the Daily Voice


Remove Mdluli, says Malema


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Lt-General Richard Mdluli must be removed from the police service, expelled ANC Youth League president Julius Malema said in Johannesburg on Monday.

“He is a serious threat to state security. Mdluli said I participated in the plot against President (Jacob) Zuma. My name is there, I have never been part of any plot,” Malema told reporters.

Mdluli was moved as head of the crime intelligence unit to another position last week. So far, he has had fraud and corruption, and murder charges against him, dropped.

Malema said fabrication of information was a serious threat.

“Now our phones are being listened to. When you greet on the phone… then you must greet Mdluli.”

He said moving him to a different position did not help.

“If we can’t trust the police, who are we going to trust?”

Malema said people could not even accept police protection because then “you are driving with Mdluli permanently”.

He said people were living in fear.

“We are creating a police state. We are being policed.”

This applied only to people who expressed a different view, said Malema.

“So… if I was responsible for those things, the man must be asked nicely to resign, and then he can be offered ambassador something nice… Somalia… and then you deploy him there.” – Sapa


HIS VIVACIOUS VOICE MAKE HIM STAND HEAD AND SHOULDER ABOVE THE REST!!!!


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BY KGATLISO RAMOSE

Hip hop is a fastest growing music genre globally and not long it will be the most liked music genre alive.
 
Hip Hop now becoming a culture especially amongst the young people ,however its often associated with bad things like drugs, alcohol, sex and money .
 
Our crew spoke with one of the finest in Taung to here what his take about glorifying above mentioned things
 
‘Hip Hop its often associated with bad boys, well am not, for me hip-hop just like any music genre, is a way of expression’ he said.
 
Born and bred in one of rural areas in Taung called Maganeng where drug abuse and poverty are biggest problems amongst  youths, PRO-T real name Rebaone Gaanabo said rapping is keeping him out of the street.
 
‘”I am always home, doing my school work and playing my music and other hip-hop artist’s music, during holidays its where I concentrate on recording and writting  musi'” he continued.
 
 
Pro-T totally adopted hip-hop attire style, with those baggy jeans and over size t-shirt. He see himself as a son of the soil, doing what he love most.
 
“Image is very important especially in this game’ he said.
 
“I have to make sure that I look presentable in the sense that by only looking at me you already know what kind of a person i am. People always call me bad names like nigga and yeah’ man but they will not discourage me. And i will always be who i am respective of other people’s thought or views” ghe yelled.
 
 
WHERE IT ALL STARTED?
‘I am a Hip-Hop fanatic,so since i started writing music long time ago before i met Sloavoz and later met T- FILL and Loaf.
We started a crew called Money Makers” he said.
 
“From that moment I realised that he adopted a hip hop language too.
We recorded only one track then we parted ways due to financial problems and other guys like T-FILL and Loaf moved to other place far from home” he said.
 
He admit that it was tough continue with music after the break up.
‘It was kinda surreal coming from being a recording artist to a song writer, the transition was hard to adjust’ Pro-T said.
 
PICKING UP THE PIECES AND RE-INVENTING HIMSELF!!!
‘I contnue doing what am born to do which is writing song then I met Kgatliso Ramose and we started an entertainment company and that is where i gathered my strength to soldier on” he said.
 
Things started to add up for the young rapper who have that never-die attitude.
“Under Black Rock Entertainment(BRE) we formed a group called Black Rock,we recorded our first single during September holidays and the response from the public was awesome'” said a 17 year-old rapper.
The Maganeng-born rapper continues
‘”We recorded another song late last year. Both singles are doing great on kasimp3.com, our download site.
 
Before the interviews. the download rates were standing at 110.Pro-T thanks the support he received from his fans and asked them keep on supporting local music.
 
‘It is amazing to see our music getting a warmth and thanks to our fans for their unconditional support’ he concluded.
 
GIGS LINE UP
The whole Black Rock Entertainment crew including DJ Trust, DJ Medley, DJ Raps, Tseke and Black Rock will perform at Dj Thethi’s Annual Bash at Motimalenyora Tavern- Pudumoe on
28 July 2012.
 
Fan can get in touch with PRO-T on his facebook page, his username is Gaanabo Thabo or Black Rock Entertainment fan page
Follow us on twitter @Taung_DailyNews and keep supporting our local talents.
E-mail us if you have an extra-ordinary thing that you doing in your community.
 
 

Rugby camp incident a prank – school


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Edgemead High School has denied that “any criminal activity took place” in the case of a 16-year-old who alleged he was sexually molested at a rugby camp in March.

The Cape Argus reported last week that the boy had apparently been given alcohol and, while unconscious, had had his eyebrows and head shaven and had later allegedly been attacked with a broomstick by older boys.

The incident was apparently part of an “initiation”.

School governing body chairwoman Mrs L Smith said in a statement on the school’s website: “The Edgemead High School was subjected to adverse media coverage on May 10, 2012, in connection with an incident which occurred during a recent first-team rugby tour to Velddrif.”

She called what is alleged by the victim “a prank”.

“This media release is deemed necessary because a considerable portion of the content of the media coverage was either completely false and/or distorted,” she wrote.

She said the incident had been fully investigated by the school’s management and the seven boys involved in the incident had appeared before the governing body.

“The school is completely confident that due process was followed throughout. Despite media coverage alleging criminal acts on the part of the pupils, no such evidence was forthcoming in the investigation, and no such evidence was provided by the parents of the pupil,” she said.

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Shock at death of top lawyer


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By Lungelo Mkamba and Kamini Padayachee

There are still questions over what might have pushed top Durban attorney Mvuseni Ngubane to commit suicide at his Kloof home at the weekend, with his family and friends in the legal fraternity saying that he had showed no signs of distress.

Ngubane, 55, was found dead in his Mercedes-Benz on Saturday afternoon. He had apparently shot himself in the mouth and a gun was found near his body.

He was appointed by President Jacob Zuma last year to act as secretary on the committee appointed to probe the arms deal.

Legal professionals were full of praise for Ngubane, who has handled several high-profile criminal cases, including the defence of Durban businessman and socialite Sifiso Zulu and Sheryl Cwele, the former wife of the State Security minister Siyabonga Cwele.

Ngubane was the managing director and founding partner of Durban-based law firm Ngubane and Partners Incorporated, and was said to have been in favour with the government.

He was chairman of the Durban branch of the Black Lawyers’ Association (BLA) and was previously the national president of the organisation for two years. He co-chaired the Law Society of South Africa in 2005.

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Ngubane also served on the Judicial Service Commission (JSC) in 2009 and was one of the JSC members who was perceived to favour Western Cape Judge President John Hlophe during the controversy that surrounded his alleged attempt to influence the Constitutional Court in favour of Zuma.

Police initially suggested that Ngubane’s death might have been related to “work-related problems”, but later said this had not been confirmed.

Police sources said a bloodied suicide note found in the back seat of Ngubane’s car had been virtually unreadable and had to be sent to the forensics department to be reconstructed.

Police spokesman Lieutenant Colonel Vincent Mdunge said that an inquest docket had been opened.

“His family found him in a pool of blood with the gun next to him,” he said.

It is also believed that security cameras at Ngubane’s home had captured footage of the suicide. Mdunge said of the footage: “It will assist our investigation. But we will not disclose information on that. It is not in the best interests of the family.”

Ngubane’s brother, Boy, told The Mercury that he had last seen his brother on Saturday morning in Clermont.

“We met and spoke and then he went home. I was shocked to receive a call after 3pm from police.”

Boy said his brother had apparently shot himself after his wife Mpume and 13-year-old daughter Sduduzo, had left the home.

When Mpume and Sduduzo returned, they found Ngubane dead in the car.

“Mpume and Sduduzo went to the car and saw what had happened.” he said.

 

“He appeared to be his normal self when we met in Clermont. He did not tell me about any problems. This has taken the family by surprise.”

Ngubane’s former client, Cwele, said that she was overwhelmed by the news of his death.

“I spoke to him three days ago and he did not show any signs to suggest he was distressed,” she said.

“I am shocked beyond belief. I could not sleep last night (Saturday), I was crying so much. Only God will know what he was dealing with that made him react this way.”

Cwele, who is out on bail after being sentenced to 12 years for drug dealing, said Ngubane was meant to represent her at her criminal appeal against her conviction in the Supreme Court of Appeal in Bloemfontein.

Ngubane had told The Mercury last week that the 500-page appeal papers had been filed.

Thami Thembe, a director at Ngubane’s law firm, said:

“We are not sure what could have pushed him to do this… It had been business as usual and he was handling high-profile matters.”

The national president of the BLA Busani Mabunda, who visited the Ngubane home on Sunday, described the death as a “big loss for the legal profession in the SA

… He could have easily become a judge.”

JSC spokesman Dumisa Ntsebeza SC was equally shocked. “I had spoken to him a few weeks ago and I joked about when the arms deal commission was going to get off the ground and he laughed it off and said they were putting it together.”

He said Ngubane had been a “master reconciler” and good leader.

“He had the distinction of being the president of the BLA for two consecutive terms. In that position, he had to get lawyers… to work together and he seemed to do this with effortless ease. He was an unassuming person who led by example.”

KZN Premier Zweli Mkhize, speaking in Newcastle at the provincial ANC congress, said he was saddened to hear about the death of the “seasoned activist lawyer”.

Ngubane is survived by his wife, daughter and son, Smanga, 24, who is studying at Wits University. – The Mercury

Family wiped out in crash


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By Daneel Knoetze

A grandmother was mourning the loss of her daughter and three grandsons on Sunday, after they died in a car crash on the R27 outside Langebaan late on Saturday night.

Melicia Wilsnach, her fiancé Moegamat Miller, and their sons, Damian ,16, Callum, seven, and Marcus, one, were travelling from Cape Town with two family friends when the car collided with a truck and trailer.

All seven occupants of the car died. The names of the family friends – a child and man – have not yet been released. The driver of the truck was not hurt.

The group had been returning home to St Helena Bay, said Jasintha Huyshamen, Wilsnach’s mother.

“The night the accident happened I had a bad feeling, I couldn’t sleep. Then my neighbour came to me the next morning to say she had some bad news…” she said. “To lose a whole family just like that, it’s devastating.”

It was Callum’s seventh birthday on Saturday.

 

The truck, pulling two trailers, was travelling south on the R27 and was turning right towards the Engen 1-Stop at Langebaan Junction.

The Toyota Corolla collided with a wheel axle on the first trailer and became lodged underneath, said Rob Nel of SA Paramedics Services.

 

Six people were dead when paramedics arrived. They helped to remove a boy, who was alive, from the wreck.

 

“The boy was taken to the Vredenburg Provincial Hospital where he died shortly after being admitted.”

Keri Davids, spokeswoman for provincial Emergency Medical Services (EMS), said paramedics hadworked for almost two hours to remove the bodies. “The vehicle was very badly mangled and the Jaws of Life had to be used.”

 

Police spokesman Lieutenant-Colonel André Traut said the crash was being investigated.

 

Natie Lotz, the manager of the Langebaan Junction Engen 1-Stop, said the cause of the accident was a mystery to him.

“It’s not a particularly dangerous stretch of road or turnover,” he said. “In the six years that I’ve been here, I’ve only heard of two accidents.”

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Zille takes on Madonsela


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By Deon de Lange

Western Cape Premier Helen Zille says she will not resign following reports that the Public Protector has provisionally found the province’s controversial communications tender was invalid.

Zille had earlier undertaken to resign if any “corruption” was found to have taken place in awarding the two- year branding and communications contract to leading marketing firm, TBWA Hunt Lascaris, in 2011.

But in her response on Sunday, Zille noted that Public Protector Thuli Madonsela’s “draft report” had found “no corruption whatsoever”.

She also disputed several “findings” in the interim report and threatened to challenge these in the High Court unless they were excised from Madonsela’s final report, due out at the end of the month.

“There are, of course, the inevitable calls for me to resign as a result of the Public Protector’s draft report.

“I had undertaken to resign if the tender was found to be corrupt. It is common cause that there was no corruption whatsoever and I regard these resignation calls as the normal political posturing that should be treated as such,” Zille wrote in her online newsletter on Sunday.

Madonsela’s spokeswoman, Kgalalelo Masibi, told the Cape Argus on Sunday that the Public Protector “does not comment on provisional reports, as they are confidential”.

“The Public Protector also does not make ‘findings’ in provisional reports, but ‘observations’, which are invitations to the relevant parties to comment (further) on the matters raised.

“The Public Protector has granted the extension for comments to May 18 and intends to release the final report on May 31,” she added.

The DA leader came under fire last year after the Sunday Times revealed that her own provincial treasury had raised concerns about the process followed in awarding the province-wide branding and communications contract, valued at between R50 million and R70m.

Concerns focused on the role that Zille’s special advisers, Ryan Coetzee and Gavin Davis, had played in the process after it came to light that they had assisted provincial communications chief, Nick Clelland-Stokes, in drafting the criteria for the tender.It was also revealed that they had served on the tender evaluation committee in alleged contravention of treasury rules.

At the time, critics accused Zille of practising “cadre deployment” – an ANC appointment policy she has frequently criticised – by allowing her political advisers to serve on the committee. But the DA leader said she had been unaware of Coetzee’s role in the process and that “someone with an axe to grind leaked one selected document out of a whole process to give the impression that there had been a breach of regulations or some sort of corruption where there was none”.

Quoting from a leaked copy of Madonsela’s interim report, newspapers reported that that Coetzee’s and Davis’s involvement in the process had constituted “improper conduct and maladministration”.

The report states that the process followed in awarding the deal was “unlawful”, thus rendering the “entire procurement process invalid”.

Madonsela suggested that the conduct of the director general in the premier’s office, Brent Gerber, who asked Coetzee and Davis to become involved, was “unlawful, improper” and amounted to “maladministration”. Gerber declined to comment on Sunday.

Significantly, Madonsela’s report is understood to exonerate Zille, but recommends that Gerber “immediately terminate the further execution of the invalid agreement”.

“No evidence or information was presented or found… indicating that the premier was in any manner involved in the procurement process,” the report is quoted as saying.

Political Bureau